This is really sad…the devil is on rampage!

Sam Sarpong, aged 40, host of Yo Momma! committed suicide by jumping off a bridge on Monday, 26th of October.

My question is… Why?? Why would anyone want to to take his or her life, especially when they are at their lowest?!  That’s accepting defeat in whatever challenges you are going through!

Sam seemed to have everything going for him… He could literally pay his bills! How come the signs are always missed?

Hollywood should start doing a routine periodic mental checks on their stars, really… We can’t afford to lose more people!

May God be with his family in this difficult time. And may God grant us better ways of dealing with out problems other than suicide!

Devil, you are a liar…you have no dominion over our lives in Jesus name. Amen.



And trust Nigerian parents to add salt to the injury.

The incidence happened in Abia state. The victim, a 15 year old JSS 3 girl, who just finished writing her junior WAEC exams. On her way back from her married sister’s house, 3 boys,who had been making advances at her dragged her into bush and took turns in abusing her.

Instead of her mother to handle her daughter and the situation with utmost care, she started blaming her for being raped and even started stigmatising her.

The traumatised Girl, not knowing what to do and where to go, plus fear of possibly getting pregnant, hung herself on a guava tree(an orange tree wouldn’t have made a difference… Mscheew).

*I don’t understand why some mothers do that, blame their daughters for being sexually molested or raped… Well, that’s part of being female in Nigeria. Even if their fathers raped them, the daughters will still be punished or blamed. SMH!

Meanwhile, these same boys that raped this girl, are probably boys, that their mothers will do anything to have. When they have the so called male child, training the boy becomes a problem. Is it not better to have 10 girls than having 1 useless male child who brings nothing but shame to their family.

Bottom line is that, mothers are not doing much to protect their girl-child. Start talking to your sons…stop deceiving yourselves.

May the soul of Comfort Uche-Ume rest in perfect peace. May those boys and their families, who caused this have no rest until they face the full wrath of the law.



  What’s happening to young girls of these days?! Imagine a young promising girl with a bright future, killing herself because of a MAN!!

I just read a story about how a 26 year old student of Delta State University, committed suicide just because her fiancé of 7 years called it quits. The poor girl overdosed herself and died before help could reach her.

I don’t understand why some girls would rather die in a fruitless relationship than move on to a better life. Sometimes, I wonder if I’m the one that is abnormal, especially in my way of thinking.

When a relationship goes sour, sometimes it’s just for the best. If you’ve committed your relationship into God’s hands and it still breaks, then it’s for the best.

If you, as a woman, have tried very hard in putting in your best in a relationship and it still doesn’t work out, then the problem may not be you, but him. 

You girls really need to start placing yourselves in high esteem. Even when the guy starts dating someone else, some of you still spend your lifetime stalking your ex and his beau. Some even go as far as creating scenes in public! I say nothing to you but “shame”. 

I urge you all in God’s name, please, start learning to love yourselves. No man is worth dying for. If your ex doesn’t appreciate you enough to marry you, then it’s his loss, not yours. 

On a final note, it’s better to end a 10 year courtship than suffer a lifetime of pain in marriage. A lot of you think that marriage is a joke…you better think again. 

…tell them Nicki.


1208-earl-hayes-with-girl-VINE-02Floyd Mayweather did!

According to TMZ, Floyd was on FaceTime with one of his best friends, rapper Earl Hayes  when the guy pulled out a gun, shot his wife, VH1 star Stephanie Moseley – and then killed himself.

Hayes had called Floyd on FaceTime Monday morning in a rage, over claims his wife had been unfaithful! Despite, Floyd’s pleas, the dude still shot Steph and himself!

*All these out-of-control-men* Is it too much to end the relationship…some men though…too territorial!