THIS HAS TO BE LOVE! 

THIS HAS TO BE LOVE! 

So, this morning, some article on tori.ng caught my attention. 

Cho’zyn and his bride to be


Now this guy, Cho’zyn (what a name), shocked people, when he proposed to his girlfriend in public. 

Cho’zyn proposing


My question is: what’s wrong with that? Is it because she’s plus-sized? Or you think plus-sized babes don’t deserve the same amount of love that ‘skinny’ girls get? I don’t just get it! Because, in all honesty, they don’t even know this girl as much as Cho’zyn (I still don’t get this name) does. Thank God, Cho’zyn did the right thing by publicly declaring his love to his woman for the right reasons! 

And in his own words, as expressed on social media…

#SheSaidYes!! Words can’t fully express how much I love you @virtuous.joy! Thank you for your constant love, encouragement, support, motivation, and being my best friend. Thank you for your patience with me and making me feel like the greatest.

At first, when I saw the article and the picture following it, I thought to myself, this must be a Nigerian guy trying to get citizenship from this innocent girl! Then I read that he was based there(whatever that means).

Gist culled from tori.ng

LOOK WHO’S BREAKING UP…AGAIN!

LOOK WHO’S BREAKING UP…AGAIN!

Drew Barrymore and Will Kopelman have decided to split after just three years of marriage! At the least the good thing that came out of the marriage are her 2 beautiful daughters, Olive 3 and Frankie 23 months.

Let’s not forget that she was once married to Jeremy Thomas and the marriage lasted for a few weeks. Then she got married to Tom Green but a few months later, her then husband filed for a divorce.

I’m seriously trying not to be negatively judgemental but I can’t help but wonder what’s up with Drew?!  Really, if it’s not working for you after 3 men, then it’s either you are not cut out for marriage, or you have major problems!

Even though Drew’s being going on about ‘Trust’ and ‘Compromise’ …still trying to figure out what she’s talking about!

I sure hopes she finds what will truly make her happy!… And I love her O!

SHOULD PREGNANCY BE A PRE-REQUISITE FOR MARRIAGE?

SHOULD PREGNANCY BE A PRE-REQUISITE FOR MARRIAGE?

Giving that there seems to be a gradual rise in divorce rate due to infertility issues as one of the major cause, a certain group of individuals believe that it’s important a woman’s fertility be tested!  According to them, it will prevent a ‘fruitless’ marriage and unnecessary waste of time.

Well, I’m sorry but I beg to differ! As subjective as this issue is, any relationship based on this condition is a completely false one. Love, last time I checked, still remains unconditional. Therefore, any woman in this kind of relationship with rules, should bail out now…except if you are in it with a different agenda as well. That will be 1-1! Lol!

Anyways, what are your thoughts on this matter. Let’s see how many people think pregnancy is important  before marriage.

LAMAR ODOM FOUND UNCONSCIOUS IN A BROTHEL

LAMAR ODOM FOUND UNCONSCIOUS IN A BROTHEL

Ever since 35year old Lamar Odom, former NBA basketball star and ex-husband of Khloe Kardashian, was found unconscious and unresponsive in a legal brothel, Khloe has remained inconsolable.

He was said to have taken a lot of ‘herbal Viagra’ but no illegal drugs where found. After he checked in on a Saturday, he was found unconscious at about 3:30pm that same day.

What’s hurting me about this whole gist is the fact that this guy, Lamar, was obviously hurting inside and the only way he saw fit to sort his problem out was to engage in ‘activities’ that were obviously going to increase his pain. Khloe really tried to get him to therapy but he kept failing!

The fact that Khloe left him, just did him in. He really felt the impact of the divorce and then proceeded on a journey of self destruction.
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The moral of this incidence is that if you are hurting in any way, try to reach out to someone who loves you or someone who you can trust with your secret or seek professional help. Your problem is not and can’t be more than the next person’s own.
Don’t mind that ‘they’ said he went to enjoy himself, the guy was battling psychological and emotional issues.

I only hope he comes out of this soon and learn a huge lesson from God.

INI EDO HAS REALLY SUFFERED!

INI EDO HAS REALLY SUFFERED!

  Why are people so hateful with their words? Just because Ini Edo posted this picture of herself in a Lounge on her Instagram page, with the caption “#yesterday …#mimzcountdown”, a fan foe,came after her viciously, saying, “Lounge owner! Only irresponsible females run such business. Go trace your steps or you will continue failing in all marriages you get into…Menopause in now 40…just saying”.

Ini really ‘fell’ my hand by replying this nobody, “one can’t help but feel sorry for you. Until your opinion can pay bills, stuff it. Sad woman…”

How many will she continue to reply like this?!