I opened up my photo album in my iPad, and I see this picture of my two daughters having a special moment!
The only person who could have taken this shot is my ex-maid (Yeah, I laid her off…just had too! Don’t want to go into details for now #traumatized) How she got hold of my iPad will forever remain a mystery! I didn’t even bother asking my kids, because an argument will definitely ensue! #CantDeal

Anyways, the cute thing about this picture, is that these girls only look cute together when they aren’t at each other’s throat half of the time! …I hope someone with daughters understands what I mean? *sigh*

But what I can’t clearly understand is why my 2nd daughter is on kitchen table with practically no clothes on!

Anyways… It’s nice to know that there are days when they don’t have ‘fights’



Na wah! What could be more trying than this?

A pastor, Gentry Eddings, in North Carolina and his wife, Hadley, tragically lose their newborn son 2 days after they lose their 2 year old in a car accident.

Why do bad stuff happen to good people? Unfortunately, it’s not in our place to question God. I guess He needs to know if Gentry and his family truly love and worship him…after all, he’s a jealous God.

If I’m not mistaken in God’s awesomeness, if the couple pass this test of faith (and I hope they do), He will probably bless them with quadruplets.

Let’s just keep praying for them.


Good morning peeps!

It feels really good to be back.  I’m finally ready to narrate my experience with my last supposed fantastic maid. Wow! That experience kinda left me moderately traumatized, so much so that when I hear the word ‘maid’, I squirm! Lol!

I’m so glad to be back from my exhilarating vacation, save for the “No water – no electricity – no fuel” situation! Really?! *Nigeria should be arrested*

It still beats me black and blue how leaders of this great nation can be comfortable with the present state of the country! *Seems to me like a bad case ‘fecal incontinence’ *… In which case,  Nigeria can’t control its bulls&#t.

Meanwhile I’ve seriously been thinking of a theme for my write ups of today but couldn’t come up with any :-(… So I’m just gonna go with the flu of everything that inspires me to connect with you guys. 🙂

Do have an awesome day ahead.




Isn't this doggie cute?

Hell No!!

We’ve been through this countless of times, and I’m not giving into their requests… MmmmMm..Nope.

It’s not like I’m trying to be mean but frankly speaking that’s like giving me some extra work to do. I have some conditions to hubby and kids, but they have failed to fulfill them. Okay, you tell me if what I ask for them to do before bringing the dog into my house is much:
1. Build a kernel before you get any dog.
2. Get a dog trainer because I ain’t having an unruly doggie in my house!
3. Increase my monthly allowance by 60%… The dog will eat na! *wink*
4. The dog they will need to get, that I want will never grow… As in I want those dogs that are really close to the ground, that never grow. *That way I don’t remember it’s a doggie*
5. My hubby should draw up a timetable of how they will take turns in caring for and walking the dog…excluding me! *Hehehe*

So do you guys think I’m asking for much? Nah!… Didn’t think so.

You know my hubby had made an arrangement for one without my knowledge,  but thank goodness, I came right on time to see it being delivered to my door step! I shrieked as soon as I saw my friends bring the puppy over. Luckily, my kids hadn’t seen it, so I hurriedly pleaded with them to take the cute doggie back. It really broke my heart that such a cute doggie couldn’t stay… It will just die of hunger, because my peeps in the house were not ready for the doggie… And definitely not me!


This size of doggie isn't bad as well

A kernel just had to be made… Can’t deal with dog s%#t around my house, not now, not ever!

Now…everyone ‘hates’ me in the house!… Well, whatever!


Image credit: Tower

Oh, My My My!

I will suspend my mouth until after you have read the mail…

Dear NHW,

I am bringing my tears of woe to you O! I am married to the most selfish man on earth. He doesn’t care about us.

We have been married for 10 years and we have 5 children. He is an engineer and I am a secondary school teacher. His salary is enough to take care of us, but I also augment with mine.

My husband doesn’t really give me monthly allowance for house-keeping, instead, he prefers to buy the things we need for the house. There is something he has never and will never buy, and that is fruits. But, when you enter his room, you will see him licking fruits or you will see signs of fruit in his bin. I’ve asked him severally why he does things like that and that, what is wrong with him buying for his children, not even me. He will reply by asking me if he doesn’t take care of the house. He does the same for eggs, butter, sometimes bread and then maybe small thing like doughnut or chin-chin. Meanwhile, I have never bought anything without sharing it for the family.

I am not happy about this. It shows that there is no togetherness. If he knows he cannot share with his kids, why did he make me have 5 children.


*Madam, I am really sorry for the cross you have to bear. It’s a real cross you just have to bear, no one can help you carry it, except you…sorry! But if you can always get hold of his car keys, maybe you should be checking to see when he hides things and make him bring it out to share…as in immediately! The only question I have for men like this is…


Image credit: Felicity114