LOOK WHO’S BREAKING UP…AGAIN!

LOOK WHO’S BREAKING UP…AGAIN!

Drew Barrymore and Will Kopelman have decided to split after just three years of marriage! At the least the good thing that came out of the marriage are her 2 beautiful daughters, Olive 3 and Frankie 23 months.

Let’s not forget that she was once married to Jeremy Thomas and the marriage lasted for a few weeks. Then she got married to Tom Green but a few months later, her then husband filed for a divorce.

I’m seriously trying not to be negatively judgemental but I can’t help but wonder what’s up with Drew?!  Really, if it’s not working for you after 3 men, then it’s either you are not cut out for marriage, or you have major problems!

Even though Drew’s being going on about ‘Trust’ and ‘Compromise’ …still trying to figure out what she’s talking about!

I sure hopes she finds what will truly make her happy!… And I love her O!

THE TRAGEDY OF BEING MARRIED TO EMEKA IKE

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I’m not trying to be judgmental here but this ‘Emeka Ike’  case is a typical example of what happens to any woman who is trying to have custody over her children, after a escaping a marriage filled with Domestic Violence.

See, I know for sure 2 wrongs don’t make a right and at the same time, no woman will just wake up one day and start accusing her husband of being physically violent or otherwise. In fact, most often t than not, Nigerian women like to protect their husbands, and even cover up their mess.

But it takes only a sensible woman to save herself from a domestic violence situation, no matter the cost. It is only a woman who is alive that can try to then get her children…but from a very safe distance.

Emeka Ike’s marital issues is something I’ve been trying so hard not to talk about. What saddens me is the way society frowns at a married woman who flees from her home, no matter the reason. See how long it’s taking the court in granting the woman’s request! If a wife says she’s not interested, then she’s not interested.
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And I mean the role Emeka’s mom is playing in all these ongoing brouhaha, shouldn’t shock people. Every woman should not foolishly think that it is every mother inlaw that has their backs when the chips are down! Mba nunnu! Whether she likes it or not, you are still the outsider, therefore don’t expect that she will quarrel with her son over you! It’s a matter of “soldier come, soldier go”!

Emma, Emeka’s wife, said that the last she tried to speak with her kids, it was her mother inlaw who picked the call, and asked her to read Exodus 21!

Emma has moved out of the house for over 2 years now, in which no attempt has been made by her husband to reconcile. So naturally, the poor chic had to file for a divorce. Initially, Emeka’s counsel pleaded that the court give them 6months to allow for the possibility of a settlement. But Emma has cried that it’s too long, so the court shortened it to 2weeks. *Talk about a woman who knows what she wants*

I can imagine what she endured for 12 years! I’ve never been a fan of Emeka Ike sef! There was always something creepy about him, that tended towards violence, and this his wahala has just confirmed it. There a lot of actors that share the same spot like Emeka, that I seriously suspect may be violent to their wives – Emeka Enyiocha, Jim Iyke, ehm…these are the only 2 I can remember for now.

Anyway, I would love to use this medium to personally plead with women in Domestic Violence situations to please take a cue from Emma’s situation. It’s never too late to back out! Ignore what people may say to you, nothing else matters apart from your life! Save yourself first, then worry about other things later.

One more thing, if you’ve left the house completely, never agree for a meeting with your husband in the same house that you left…it may very well be the last time you will come out alive. So don’t make that mistake. If he wants to see you, then ensure the meeting is in a public place! #JustTakingPrecautions

Have an awesome day ahead.

DESPERATE HUSBAND KILLS 41 DAY OLD DAUGHTER

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I don’t understand this world anymore. I mean, why would a husband, in the bid to divorce his wife, resort to killing his only child?!
That’s what Mr Kazeem Olajide did O! The only crime his wife committed was to ask her husband to hold their only child just so that she could sweep the compound. Only for her to come back to meet her baby gasping and foam gushing from her mouth. She claimed she smelt pesticide in her baby’s bottle. *How cruel!

Apparently, neighbors were not surprised this happened because, according to them, Kazeem never loved his wife and usually warned people not to refer to him as “Baba Zainab”
(Source: Punch)

The annoying thing about all these kind of heinous crimes is that the accused usually blames everything on the devil!

But peeps, let’s be sincere or Frank frank, this looks like a case of forced marriage as a result of an unplanned pregnancy. Baby mamas should learn from this situation, when an adult male is not ready to take responsibility for a pregnancy, the girl should take a cue and move on. Unplanned pregnancy shouldn’t lead to automatic marriage. A man could spite a woman for life because of this.

So ladies, if your boyfriend is not ready to accept the responsibility of the pregnancy, don’t beg him and don’t get your whole family to force him to marry you. Or else the consequences might be grave…

MARRIED AND BURDENED WITH A HUSBAND

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A woman has been living with her husband in the same house for almost 20 years. They don’t stay in the same room.  They haven’t made love in almost 15 years. He doesn’t cater to her needs or provide for her and her kids financially. But all the same, she still feeds him 3 square meals.  

On top of all these, her husband still brings prostitutes to their matrimonial home, whether or not she’s at home. Now, the woman is battling with high blood pressure and claims she’s not affected by what her husband is doing.

What advice do you have for her?

WOMAN LEAVES HER HUSBAND BECAUSE HE IS TOO NICE

Peeps, please I need your judgement on this case. The judge has ruled quite alright but I still need to understand how a woman would want to abandon a husband that practically worships her!

Where in Nigeria, will you see a man take of children not fathered by him plus his own one child with the woman? Instead, what you will see is a woman hiding her kids from previous marriage with close relatives, so that she can start a new life with her new husband.

I guess this sort of explains why some women remain in abusive relatioships! #SomeWomenJustLoveRoughNeckBrothersWhoGiveThemPain

As far as I am concerned, this woman is possessed!