Shocked beyond words

I’ve tried to understand in different languages this worrisome letter. Since I haven’t been able to come up with any reasonable explanation, I’ve decided to share it with you guys…and then you tell me if the writer has spiritual problems following her from the deepest root of her village! 

The letter

How can a fellow woman want sex so bad, she needs her intestines shifted…how?! Are you telling me, that nothing else fills this woman’s thought except an enlarged penis?? 

Woman, whoever you are, you don’t need an enlarged penis, you need deliverance…or peeps, am I missing something hia? 



  LOL! This life is just crazy!

I was generally doing my normal stuff when a message came in from my BBM group. Naturally, I opened it and this is what I saw…

A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friends house, where a wedding reception was taking place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave her some money to use as taxi for transport. He left for the office. The wife took a Taxi to the wedding reception,there she met a fine Girl and they got talking to each other. Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi. The Girl responded; “My boyfriend brought me here and would be coming to pick me up. I just spoke to him on the phone and he’s on his way. Why don’t you join me in his car and we would drop you at your house”The woman agreed. A few minutes later, her husband’s car arrived. The Girl jumped into the front passengers seat of the car and asked the Woman to sit at the backseat, which she did confused and perturbed. Then the Girl introduced her new friend to her boyfriend. When the man turned around to greet the woman, he recognized her as his wife. Nothing much was said along the way. He dropped the wife at home first as planned and proceeded to drop the Girl at her house………The question now is: If you were the wife, what would you do when your husband returns home? If you were the husband, what would you say to your wife when you return home. Please open discussion

When I finished reading this piece, I smiled…an evil one of course! This will definitely cost my husband, not our marriage O, but money!

For me, I’ll just pretend that I’m oblivious of what is going on and play along…I’ll allow him to drop me off and then he can then go drop off his girlfriend. All through the drive home, I’ll show no emotions. Sebi, he will want to come back home, but the problem would be, which house?! I won’t let him come into the house until he credits my account with 1million naira…no begging, no paying in installments. In short, NO ALERT, NO ENTRY!

What will you do, be honest!


Peeps, please I need your judgement on this case. The judge has ruled quite alright but I still need to understand how a woman would want to abandon a husband that practically worships her!

Where in Nigeria, will you see a man take of children not fathered by him plus his own one child with the woman? Instead, what you will see is a woman hiding her kids from previous marriage with close relatives, so that she can start a new life with her new husband.

I guess this sort of explains why some women remain in abusive relatioships! #SomeWomenJustLoveRoughNeckBrothersWhoGiveThemPain

As far as I am concerned, this woman is possessed!



Mrs Okafor is very angry right now, ┬ábecause according to her, her husband won’t stop interfering in domestic affairs. She says her husband undermines her authority in front of their maid, which is probably contributing to the maid’s insolence towards her.

She has given him some conditions which includes –

  • He should desist from paying the maid her monthly salary and hand over that ‘portfolio’ to her.
  • Whenever he needs anything, rather than mention the maid’s name, he should inform her.
  • He should never scold or even correct her in front of the maid even if she’s doing the wrong thing.
  • He should stop asking after the maid’s well being like “Has she eaten?” and all that.
  • He must never send the maid on any errand.
  • All matters concerning domestic duties should be left in her care.


Mrs Okafor is threatening to move out of their matrimonial home if he doesn’t agree to these terms and sign.

  • Do you think husbands should involve themselves in domestic affairs?
  • Is Mrs Okafor over reacting?
  • Are her terms of resolution too harsh?
  • Do you think there is any possibility of the couple sharing domestic affairs?
  • Should there be a limit to Mr Okafor’s interference?


Frankly speaking, I personally can’t stand men who interfere in domestic issues. I think that aspect should be left to the woman. Then if she’s having problems, she could invite him to help solve it, but he shouldn’t force it.

Well, I’m feeling Mrs Okafor’s annoyance but she should chill. It hasn’t gotten to the stage of giving ultimatums, I think it’s something she can work out amicably if she puts her points across well.

The husband can keep paying the bills but shouldn’t be the one to give it directly to the maid. It should go through ‘madam’.

Abi, what do you guys suggest?



Mrs X went on a private ‘date’ with her boss in a 7 star hotel. According to her, it’s supposed to be a harmless one, basically to discuss office stuff (okay O! If she insists). The meeting started off somewhat ‘officially’ in an open area in the hotel, then it moved to a private section…dunno for whatever reason. According to Mrs X, it was probably because they had had too much to drink. But for whatever reason, Mrs X and her boss started making out. And while this was going on, her eyes caught another couple on the opposite side making out. The man looked familiar…it was her husband. At that same moment, his eyes caught hers too!

*You can imagine what happened next*

Presently accusations are flying all over the place. None of them want to accept responsibility for their actions. Mr and Mrs X have refused to confront their actions and so are filing for a divorce.


  • What do you guys think?
  • Do you think their marriage can be salvaged and maybe patched up?
  • Is divorce the one and only solution?


Mr and Mrs X both have issues with themselves and their marriage, which they seriously need to face and deal with.

And No, I honestly don’t think divorce is the answer, not if they have irreconcilable differences.

They both need to get down to the root of their marital issues, if they still want to save their marriage…as in no more secrets.

Some times couples live reckless lives so as to get their partner’s attention, and maybe workout their issues or just get the divorce they’ve always wanted.

But all in all, I think they need to look beyond their imperfections and work out their differences in marriage.