I’m still laughing in Portuguese here O!
There’s nothing this my ears will not hear! I have a friend who starves her husband of food and sex when she’s really upset with him?! Like seriously, who does that?!! She’s been getting away with this behavior for 5 years now. Unfortunately, her husband is not the talking type, he doesn’t even say what’s in his mind! *scary* All I know is that my friend is http://www.askingforproblems.com !
So, in this light, can I just ask, “What do you do when hubby upsets you?”
– shout back at him
– walk out of the scene
– slam the phone
– break anything in your way
– complete silence
– starve him of food or sex or both
Me, I must talk small, but if I see that the talk is becoming hot, I just mute immediately… 2 people can’t be mad at the same time na! But I’ve never in my wildest dreams starved him of anything! But I automatically become an ice-queen, until he does or says the right thing to melt the ice! (Cash, gift or kind!)
I’ve met a guy who got a mistress just because his wife would starve him of sex for as long as the fight was on. And he felt justified and happy with his decision. *Mba, I don’t like the idea!*