WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK OF RENEWAL OF WEDDING VOWS?

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I like the idea, please don’t get me wrong. It’s just that I can’t help thinking, “what’s the point?!”

What’s the point of a renewal if situation still remains status quo? What’s the point if the man you are married still beats you black and blue? What’s the point if the man is still not financially responsible to the family?

The only renewal I’m thinking one should take is a vow to be a better spouse, not for a spouse to renew the vow to continue tolerating all forms of abuse.

So guys, what do you think? Is there any point in  doing a renewal? And if you there should be, when should it be done?… 5, 10, 15 or more years.

Okay, I’m thinking if it must be done at all, then it should be from 30 years and above. A renewal will definitely be a certificate that proves you survived ‘Tsunamis’ in the marriage! *hehehe*

2 thoughts on “WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK OF RENEWAL OF WEDDING VOWS?

  1. I would not choose to have a renewal of vows, even with the lies and betrayal that has occurred over the last five years, and the healing we are going through. Our vows were sacramental, and for a lifetime…not a contract with an end-date and an option of renewal. Maybe it’s just my view as a Catholic? I will say, though, that renewal ceremonies I have attended are really quite meaningful and beautiful!

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