I need your advice. I’ve been dating my fiance for like 3 years now and it’s a sure thing (I hope) that we are getting married.
When I met him, he had just broken up with his then girlfriend, but for some months now, I have observed that they have been in touch. I look at his call log, and lately it’s been looking to frequent for comfort.
Should I be worried or should I confront him about my observations?
For me, I’d rather advice you not necessarily confront him but approach him and lay down your fears about his recent connection with his ex.
I say this because of a past experience a friend had with her now husband. She had the same experience with her husband and almost broke up with him based on her assumptions. Only to find out that her husband ex was diagnosed with cancer, and acted as a link between his ex and his brother who was a doctor. The chic is dead now. May her soul rest in peace.
So you see, it may not be what you think really. Besides, being an ex doesn’t make you an enemy. As long as you are the person he has chosen to be with, you have to learn to start dealing with your insecurities, okay?
So tell him and get it over and done with before, I’m sorry to say, you do something stupid.
Abi, peeps, what do you think?