This question has sort of given me some concern, especially for babes who have been in a somewhat long relationship and can’t exactly tell what direction their relationship is heading!

On a more serious note, this is a new year and so no time for fooling around. You really need to start thinking with your head and not just your heart! Start telling yourself some home truth…really!

I’m seriously getting tired of chics who can’t read the handwriting on the wall! Don’t let these guys waste your time. You know you are not happy. You know you are not confident enough to disclaim your single status to close family and friends just yet…because, your boyfriend hasn’t defined your relationship.

You don’t do everything couples do apart from have sex… you don’t share affection, time and plans together, like regular couples do. He only calls when he needs money from you, or you to cook for him, do his laundry…even clean up the house! Really, for how long do you wanna go on like this?

If I were you babe, I would draw a love map and try to find out where exactly you guys are.

Remember, it’s a new year O! Don’t carry over ‘nonsense’ from last year or a donkey years relationship to this year…

Wishing you all the best.

Oh…and for the record…do this after Valentine’s day. *hehehe*