WHAT IS WRONG WITH USING A DILDO?

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Dear NHW,

I’m getting frustrated day by day with my husband’s constant absence in our marriage.

Granted, he is a busy man but should that be enough reason not to perform his husbandly duties?

I have resulted in buying sex toys to pleasure myself. My husband stumbled on one them and is seriously making a big deal of it. I’ve tried explaining to him but has failed to reason with me.

My annoyance is that, my husband has gone as far as involving my family members, as well as his parents. No one is addressing the fact that he’s never around as a husband. I have a choice of having a full time boyfriend, if not for all this HIV or Hepatitis of a thing going on!

Please, I need an urgent advice as soon as possible.

*Hmmmm…my dear reader, I feel you. I really do not know how to address this dildo matter. All I know is that the decision you have taken is wiser and safer.

I think why there is a lot of antagonism towards this dildo matter from your hubby is because he’s one of those people who are still culture bound and is not readily open to westernized culture.  He should appreciate the fact that you are saving him from a whole lot of problems!

Meanwhile, I’ll still recommend 2 things: Communication and Prayer. Look for someone in the family (whether yours or his) and explain situations to him or her…and make this fast.

Let’s hear from the ‘house’…what do you guys think?

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