I really really love your blog. How do you find the time to write all these interesting stuffs when you say you are a doctor? Please keep up the good work.
NHW, I need your candid advice in what I am about to do. I have this really close male friend of mine. We are basically best friends, as in we share everything you can imagine. Not a day passes without us speaking to each other.
Andy and I have been friends since secondary school days and the friendship blossomed till university days. We just graduated and are about to go our separate ways (well almost), which is scaring the hell out of me! I can’t imagine a day without seeing him or hearing from him.
I want to take our friendship to another level. I’ve tried dropping a lot of hints but I’m not sure if he’s acting like he doesn’t notice. I even say “I love you” at the end of our conversations but he takes it as a normal thing giving that we’ve known ourselves for so long.
So I have decided to go all the way and tell him exactly how I feel…but I’m so scared of being rejected or perceived as a woman of lose virtue. I just can’t afford to lose him to someone else . I’ll just hate myself.
Please, NHW, I need that advice of yours. What should I do?
* Hmmmmmm. …blog reader, thanks first of all for your kind words. Secondly, I like girls that know what they want and go for it. If your relationship is exactly the way you describe it, then I urge you to go ahead and let him know how how you feel about him…ain’t no shame in trying! Some guys are pretty slow in ‘taking the bull by the horn’.Please, dear, do give a feedback and let us know how it went.
Wish you all the best.