Well, totally agree.
I know a couple that got married because they thought they were in love. But being ‘tied’ together made the relationship ugly. They had no clue as to how to make it work and so decided to call it quits.
Meanwhile, I know another couple that hated each other and were so sure that their ‘arrangee’ marriage will not see the light of day. But somehow, one person’s wisdom influenced the other person. And little by little, they added more wisdom, patience, understanding and communication to their marriage…they are still together after 25 years.