In an Interview granted to VANGUARD, ace musician, Terry G, expressed his fears about marriage, and why he can’t get married to his baby mama now.
This is what he had to say:
“Why are you yet to get married to Mimi, the mother of your child?
She’s my fiancée; we are getting married one day but I don’t want everybody pushing us to settle down as if they own our lives. One thing many of them have not realised is that marriage is a decision we have to make once in life. I don’t want to make a decision now and change my mind later or else everybody looking up to me as a role-model will see me as an irresponsible guy. Besides, I don’t want to make a rash decision that I’d regret for the rest of my life. That is why I have been taking my time, putting things that make marriage worthwhile together and at the end, when that fruitfulness is everywhere we can live our lives together forever. I thank God I have a good and understanding partner and we are working together.
What do you understand about marriage?
I don’t know anything about marriage, because I have never been into it, but I believe marriage is when two opposite sexes are living together as couple. Technically, I’m married because my fiancée lives with me and my son. I live like a married man, though without any ring or court pronouncement. Everybody asks me about marriage but hardly talks about divorce. Let’s not go into that aspect so we don’t hurt the victims of that circumstance and if I can say it here, I don’t want to rush into marriage so I won’t become a victim of the circumstance called divorce.”
*Well, I sure hope they have a solid arrangement. Because, all this one is saying does not benefit his baby mama in any way. She shouldn’t fool herself thinking that is marriage. This guy can push her out at any point. If I were her, I would respect my age and look for a man who loves her more than she does and is ready to take her to the altar without giving it a thought!
Guys, like Terry G, I would advise chics to be careful about this kind of guys,because this is a sure sign that HE JUST NOT SO INTO YOU!
Any woman living this way, deserves better rather than being a ‘glorified maid/nanny’. If he respects and loves you enough, he should put a ring on it!
HATE ME NOW, BUT THANK ME LATER, that I said this!