Why do girls do that?…When you catch your ‘man’ with another chic, instead of you to face the man, you fight the girl!…so uncool!
In some scenarios, when these happens, the guy generally sits back and ‘enjoys’ the brawl between you two. He makes no attempt at separating your fight with the other girl. What does that tell you?…The guy is a BIG IDIOT WHO DOESN’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU, in clear terms. This should tell you immediately that, the only relationship that existed, was the one in your head!
My advice to you my dear sister is that if you catch your man with another babe, just don’t say anything, just pick your remaining items in the house, as well as what is left of your dignity, and walk out. You never enter marriage and he is already disrespecting you, so what will happen if you venture to marry him! If you decide to forgive him, then be ready to be crying and fighting all the time. I hate it when girls know all this and when they get married to the same guy with loads of bad habit, they expect to make a saint out of him in a day! Meanwhile, you had enough time to ‘bail’!
Really, no man is a saint but a man that loves and respects you will keep his ‘mess’ away from you, until the day God decides to expose him.
So, girls, quit fighting with your fellow chic who apparently fell for the same lame guy with lame tricks! If he begs, forgive him, but move the hell ON!!