This issue of ‘Infertility’ is really causing marriages to break up. It is even worse when relatives and family will be helping you monitor your womb, whether there is ‘something’ growing inside!
Before I let the cat out of the house, please this blog reader’s tears of woe!
I’m so glad my friend introduced your blog to me. I am seriously resenting my husband and the feelings are getting worse day by day.
I and my husband have been married for close to 9years now but without a child. All these years I have been the only one going to the clinic trying to look for solution. My husband believed we had no problem, that God will do it for us at his own time.
After 4 years of going on my own, my friend advised me to try the Teaching Hospital, where I will be sure of experts than all the Private hospitals that will do nothing except chop somebody’s money. The first day I saw the doctor in LUTH, they refused to attend to me until I agreed to bring my husband. When I told him, he refused at first, until I now threatened to end the marriage. He finally agreed.
The doctor asked us to do individual tests at a particular lab and when the results came out…I was shocked. I was told I had no problem but my husband was not producing any sperm at all! I didn’t understand fully until I read about the condition on google. They called it AZOSPERMIA.
Thinking my husband will let his people know so that they can leave me in peace, he will keep quiet while I swallow all the insults his older sister especially gives to me. We have quarrelled about this issue times without number, he will beg and still not do anything about it. Okay, I suggested we adopt while we wait on the Lord. Instead of my husband to discuss with me, he tabled the matter with his people. If you see how his mother insulted me and cursed the child that we have not even agreed to adopt, I was so ashamed of myself.
NHW, I don’t know how much I can take, because left to me, I am telling the whole family who is at fault this coming week. Please how do I go about this issue? I am on the verge of abandoning this ungrateful man!
*Hmmmm…this is a serious matter. I feel for you. This is typical of most Nigerian men (sorry, no pun intended). They like to push the blame on their wives. As far as I am concerned, babe, do the needful…stop letting him blackmail you emotionally! Set up a meeting, and let your husband be in the middle then you tell them that, your husband has something to tell them. If he doesn’t or can’t, be his mouthpiece! shikena!
Abi? What do you guys think?…