I AM GETTING MARRIED SOON AND I AM STILL PINING FOR MY EX

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A distressed blog reader just sent this in and needs advice.

Dear NHW,

Please send different recharge cards next time. I don’t use Airtel and so I missed that one.

I have something that has been disturbing me and I need some advice on how to go about it. I am getting married at the end of this month but for the past 6 months, my mind keeps wondering about my ex-boyfriend. I really thought we were going to get married but was shocked that after 4 years, he broke up with me. He has refused to tell me what went wrong despite my plea.

Just when I thought I couldn’t go on with life, I met my God-send husband to be. He has really been there for me but he doesn’t know that I have not gotten over my ex. Sometimes, I feel like calling off the wedding but cards have been printed and distributed.

Please help me stop thinking about him. I hear that you are a doctor.

*Blog reader, I understand your plight…really I do. But getting married so soon, to me, isn’t such a wise decision. I dunno..I might be wrong. You should have allowed some more time to go through the healing process. Some of the ways you can fight off this unnecessary feeling, before devil uses you one day, include:

  • getting rid of all the things that remind you of him. Deleting his pictures and his numbers.
  • do some serious soul-searching and ask yourself why you keep thinking about him (it might just be a bad habit!)
  • You really need to focus on getting yourself back on track. You are more or less crying over spilt milk.
  • Get busy doing things that are financially and maybe emotionally productive.

Really, how does thinking about him, affect the ‘size’ of your pockets. Since he is the one that broke up with you, chances are that, he has moved on!

3 thoughts on “I AM GETTING MARRIED SOON AND I AM STILL PINING FOR MY EX

  1. Good responses you all. I realized that when I declared with my mouth breaking all soul ties in Jesus Name and choose to rebuke any tots of this person. tots will come, by I choose not to entertain it. I am free and moving on.

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  2. NHW has said it all , its a matter of time your feelings for ur ex will fade, u also need to help speed up the process by doing the above mentioned things Nhw has listed . and bear in mind the man in question does not want you that shld be enough reason for you to move on

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