Good morning peeps. I really do not know what to make of this mail I recently got…

Dear NHW,
I am great fan of your blog, even though I hardly comment, I have learnt a lot from it. I am presently having the last laugh. In the past 9 months, my home and my marriage have been very chaotic.
I have been faithfully married to my husband for 6 years, from the time he had nothing, and we are blessed with 2 children (a boy and a girl). At first, my husband was a very caring and awesome some man who focused on ensuring that the family was well catered for. During the times our marriage was rosy, he was a able to build our house ( a big duplex and a mini-flat at the back of the house). He was also self-employed, coming home everyday between 6pm and 7 pm. I trusted him completely. 
After some years, he started coming back home much later, even sometimes, he would travel for days claiming that it was work-related. Then my younger sister, who was living with me had been warning me about my husband’s change in behaviour and that I should do something about it. I dismissed her thoughts immediately, defending my husband.
Onetime I got pregnant for our 3rd child and he insisted I aborted it, not knowing that he had a mistress who was pregnant at the same time with me. To cut the long story short, his mistress forcefully took over the mini-flat at the back of our house, even threatening to move into the main building when she puts to bed. This mistress then brought her friend into the house to squat with her. 
Unknowingly to the mistress, my husband has been sleeping with her squatter friend. For the past few days there has been no peace in my house because we just found out that my husband impregnated his mistress’s friend! So me, I jejely sat back to see how he is going to get himself out of this situation. 
As much as I am having the last laugh, I can’t take it anymore. How did I get to this point? My younger sister says I should not leave my home. Pls I need advise, what do you think?
*your younger sister is right. If you leave, the devil will take your place. This is the time you need to be steadfast in your prayer and get those intruders out of your home*


  1. Hian! Biko! Your husband fine like Will Smith abi e get money like Dangote??? Which one?? Well it appears ya compound shall be very full. Better that you know all the contenders of his will now rather than to be taken by surprise twenty years from now. Pele dear!!!


  2. Hmmm, Me thinks, this woman should get her self tested for every STI possible first of all since the man seems to be a “big dipper” and can dip anywhere. The mistress and the squatter are the ones she knows, what about the ones she has no clue about that he is dipping into without the aid of protection.
    Madam abeg, get tested and the “close shop” for oga especially if you value your life and the future of your kids.

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