Right now Ruth Okoro must be smacking her lips on the fact that Ini Edo’s marriage has crashed. According to the ex-wife of Ini Edo’s ex-husband, Philip Ehiagwina, (Hehehe, this sounds weird!), she says Ini is a stubborn girl and that she had initially warned her not to marry her ex-husband.
If we re-call, Ruth had written a letter to Ini sometime in 2007, when her relationship with Philip was still fresh. Read full gist here.
Honestly speaking, women should learn from this kind of situation. Some women rush into marriages to take position as ‘Wife’. My advice, I will still maintain, is that you do your investigations well. Hear from the 2 parties: the man you are interested in and his ex wife. Don’t take what he tells you, especially about his marriage, hook, line and sinker…just don’t. Try and book an appointment with his ex and find out why her marriage didn’t work out (and he doesn’t have to know). Then, use your God-given brain to make your own deductions…or else you will fast become an ex- too!
If you like get carried away with pettiness or hatred for the other woman, na you sabi! Who will lose in the end?! Your own is to ensure that you don’t make the same mistake as the previous woman!